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Hello! My name is...well, you can call me Rosie. As you can probably see, my picture is of a creepy-stalker-but-sort-of-adorable horse. No, i'm not really a horse. I wish, but no. I'm human. Like you guys. And with this column, I hope to get across to everyone the fact that WE ARE ALL HUMAN! Everybody makes mistakes, and everybody has those days, as a really annoying country singer once shrieked into my ten-year-old ears. So let's all just relax a little and realize that ten years from now, we'll look back and laugh. I hope. But let's just try to keep a positive attitude, shall we?
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Location: New York
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I currently have a boyfriend. He is sweet,funny and treats me like a princess. The issue is I don't feelthose butterflies. Also I'm not physically attracted. I followed my brain and gave him a shot. Im still not physically attracted. I use to have a crush On a guy but we became best friends. This was 3 years ago. We barely talked during the last year. I needed help with school things so I text him. We started texting and I felt butterflies again. I anxiously waited for his replies. I feel horrible. Why can't I feel like this for my bf? I thought I was over the other guy but Clearly I'm not. I didn't flirt with the other guy but I feel like I'm deceiving my bf. Should I break up with him? Also I know there's not a chance with the othe guy because I'm in the friendzone. There's always that attraction between us but it's been there since I me him and he's never asked me out. Also I'm scared to ruin such a good friendship. Either way i feel my boyfriend deserves better.
Hello! You are clearly stressed, and I must say I do not blame you. You sound like a good person who really knows the difference between right and wrong. You've already conquered the first step: Acceptance. You understand that what you're doing to your current boyfriend is wrong, and that he definately deserves better treatment. To me, it seems like you have a lot of emotions to sort through, and my advice to you would be to be truthful with your boyfriend. Tell him the truth: that he's a great, fantastic person, but that you can only see yourselves as friends. If you tell him straight-out how you feel, he'll hopefull understand. You may feel miserable in a relationship with him, but completely happy in just a friendship with him. And about the other guy: It's good that you didn't flirt with him, as your current boyfriend doesn't deserve that. I can't tell you whether or not you should date the other guy or not: that's your decision, one to decide when your free and ready. My other advice to you: Take some time off. Be single for a while. Really think and sort out your feelings and emotions. Maybe even try dating other people besides those two guys. Take a deep breath and realize that nobody is perfect, and that, no: YOU ARE NOT A HORRIBLE PERSON!
Good Luck!
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Thank you so much.
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