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Hi I am the teen helper. I stumbled on this website while on google it really caught my eye so I read on and though this is just what I really need ( but not exactly what I was looking for on google). I have been told I'm really good at giving advice to my friends and I always wanted to make a difference. I am mostly focusing on teens because not only are teens going though a lot of crazy stuff at the time and just really need someone to ask or talk about problems but I am a teen myself.

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So, 13/f and I met this dude. 16/m and I haven't really met him offiicially or seen the guy. I just try to imagine him. Lets just say his name is Mike. When I think about his REAL name the thing that comes to mind is blonde hair blue eyes and let the rest fall in place. Well, we talked over the power of the internet and he sounds really nice and harmless. I don't know who he really is or what he looks like we met by chance on this really cool website and happened to hit him up about it. I think I like him, he sounds pretty harmless to me, but that's just the internet, he might be some homeboy trying to get a life. Who knows he might even a 50 perverted year old dude who is lonely and stupid. So, how do I get to bring up the subject of what we look like in a convo while chatting?? Is 3 years older than me way out of my league?? I mean, IDK if he's in a relationship wit someone, but I want to get some ideas. Can you guys give me some please?? Thanks so much.

First things first you are 13 and meeting someone on the web is really pointless because you have a whole field of guys out there you could meet. It maybe accident that you meet but it really shouldn't mean much because people can say things easier when it's not to your face.

Second he is three years older, trust me not good idea. I hate say that I been there but I have bad idea at this age. I was like you and was just considering then I started thinking clearly. It was really stupid of me at the time. I understand it's alluring but the more you think about it the weirder it will seem. Important thing i learned from it. Trust me bad idea.

Third and final: huge safety reason there. Like I said before it is so much easier to say stuff when your not looking at the persons face this could be very dangerous if ends up not being the person he claims to be don't take the chance.

Listen to everyone else who are commenting they are right

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