Hey everyone!
I'm usually that friend everyone goes to for advice. (I'm also the one who gives good advice but doesn't apply it to herself, lol.) Whether I've been in your shoes, or know little of your situation I'll answer honestly and truthfully. I'm here to help.
Some background info for you guys: My parents are divorced. My mother's remarried. I have two older sisters, one with two boys. I'm a Senior in High School.
So go ahead, ask away!
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Age: 17
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ok i'm 17 and i always told my parents i didn't want to date and they always told me to tell them when i wanted to start to date, so you know they can meet him an all. the problem is that i want to tell my mom because my parents are divorced and i trust my mom more but when i tried to tell my mom that this guy liked me and that i liked him too her reaction was happy only cause i told her i didn't want to date. so i had to lie because i was afraid pulse my mom has been feeling stressed with work and all the issues we have that i feel i shouldn't say anything but i feel bad for the guy i like hes very nice and is willing to meet my mom.its not his fault i'm too afraid to say anything! someone give me advice i dont know what to do....thanks (link)
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Alrighty. Well I've been exactly where you are. My parents have had a lot of differences,they are divorced too, but when I brought the guy I liked(lets name him Bob) home, I was pleasantly surprised. You see, my mom called my dad and they both were at my house when I got there with Bob. They sat down, very civilized, no arguments about anything, and just talked with Bob. They made me feel at east, as well as Bob. My dad made the cliche accusing, and warnings to not hurt me, My mom laughed it off as did Bob and I. We all had dinner cooked by my Mom and then my Dad dropped Bob off at his house. So you see, your parents may be divorced, maybe they don't have the communication mine do, but they should come together or at least meet with Your Bob individually. Important thing is that you all feel comfortable, and no arguments occur as your Bob will be the guest of honor, and your parents should do their best to make YOU feel good that day. Just talk to them both, tell them what's happening and what you'd like them to do. Be honest, I'm sure they'll understand and probably do something for you. Best of luck [:
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