Member Since: June 7, 2012
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Last Update: June 9, 2012
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Long story short, I chose to stay at home the first year of college. At the end of the first year, my grandmother (who lived in town) got sick and I decided I couldn't leave because my family needed me. She died in October of my junior year and I really couldn't leave then. Now, I've gone after my masters and I'm finally done with school. I feel it's past time to move out of my parents' house, but now my granddad is sick and the doctors say his heart could go out at any time. I feel bad because I still want to move out. I need to be on my own for a while before I get married next summer and want badly to have that experience. My worry is that my dad won't want me to or that he'll feel bad that I stayed home for my mom when her mom died, but not for my dad when his dad died. What should I do? (link)
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If I were you I would stay. Your dad's dad only has a few time left and your family will appreciate very much the time you spent with them. After everything and all the time spent you will have a happy heart and peaceful life to continue and enjoy with your boyfriend as you move out later and get married. God bless you and your family.
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That's good advice. But we don't know for sure that he's dying. He'll have a procedure done on monday that will hopefully save him, so if everything goes okay, I'll still move out as planned. If not, I'll stay for about a week until the funeral and everything is over, and then go. It might be too soon, but if I don't go now, ther might be a bigger reason not to go later,
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