Listen... walk away from this guy. end it while you can. this is NOT the path you want to go down. and i know this... now if you ever seen me on here i might have touched the topic of my first love.. well destroying me. when you are talking about is the path i went down accept you have some advantages i didn't... you know he still loves his ex, and HE even was the one to tell you.
My first love...was the only person i ever trusted everything too. my life. everything that kept me strong... but there was always so much worries of his ex still being in his life because they were that type of high school couple accept it didn't stop there. after being with him for what seemed like ever... and going through shit, i didn't even know i would go through... he broke my heart. no reasons given. just destroyed me. and it was only months later after i FINALLY felt better a little bit that i found out it was because he was cheating with his ex... well pretty much our whole relationship. And i knew he still had some type of feelings, i just denied it.
anyway moral of the story, i already made this mistake and i would hate for you too. it doesn't matter how great you are to the guy, as long as he loves his ex, you'll always be the rebound. nothing more. and if he sticks by you, there is a chance it may not be because he cares but because he feels he owes you for being there. do yourself a favor and ditch the guy and get someone worth it. i wish i did. and at least you'll be saving yourself some pain.

this is from a while back but thank you. this really did help when i needed it. Now looking back on it, that was probably the best choice i could have made in the situation.

Hi, thanks for coming to my column.

The name is Diamond but Dia is fine.

20, female, jersey girl at heart. mixed race taurus natured woman.

So...the reason I made this was during the start of my senior year of high school I had reached a point in my life where I didn't want to live anymore. I was tired of fighting and didn't see the reasons to fight. It was a random stranger that made me realize I would be stupid to take my life and to stop fighting.

So if you think I'm going to tell you life gets easier, I'm not. Let's face it, it doesn't get easier. Through pain you get stronger and learn to open your eyes to those things that give you strength to live.

Mine happen to be music, writing, dr. pepper, anime, the color black, the way rain sounds, and an amazing boyfriend. What gives you strength to live?

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