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Member Since: June 2, 2012
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Last Update: June 4, 2012
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So I broke up with my boyfriend of over 1 1/2 years because he was not paying enough attention to me and we had been arguing a lot lately. I also don't like the way he is so narrow minded. Well I broke up with him over skipe and I could tell he was upset, he argued with me than as well. The he wanted me to come to his family memorial party. I said won't that be akward and he said no, if we were still going to be friends that I needed to come. So I went and afterward he text me yelling about how I ignored him the entire time at the party. I calmed him down by the next day. I didn't talk to him until 4 days had passed and I texted him. He said it was perfect timing because he was on his break at work, there was just some small talk and that was it. I was his first love, and I'm wondering if inside he wants me back and would be willing to work at it?
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Hey,
Sorry about the break up, but it seems like it was the best thing to do. From what I read, it seems like he is a little controlling by making you go to the memorial party, then yelling at you for ignoring him and stuff. I think you need to give him some time to grow and work on himself. Its what's good for him. And as for wanting you back, only you can truly tell. I sure hope so! I think he does, because of how much the break up has affected him. I think if you really want to know, just talk to him about it and tell him you'll only get back with him if he starts paying more attention to you and stuff, so then he knows exactly why you broke it off with him and knows what he needs to do to get you back and then if he does anything about, you'll know if he's willing to work at it. Hope it all works out for you =)
Good luck!


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Thanks for the advice, I think I just really needed to vent!




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