Member Since: May 25, 2012
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Last Update: May 25, 2012
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I wanna cut my wrists,and all because my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore,I need help because I know it doesn't make any sense. (link)
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I'm glad you asked for help before you did cut.
And I'm also proud of you for saying that you need it, and that it doesn't make sense.
But a lot of things don't. That's okay.
Sometimes when it hurts too much, we become numb. And then when we can't take that anymore, we want to hurt ourselves to feel something, anything.
It's like, "What did I do wrong? Why doesn't he love me anymore?"
Love doesn't really make sense, either.
But please, please remember the time when you didn't have him yet, when you weren't a couple, and the ones who loved you then.
Your friends. Your family.
Yourself.
Sometimes we can get so wrapped up in the love of others that we forget the best love? It comes from ourselves.
If you love yourself, you wouldn't cut. Because you don't want to hurt, right? You don't want to feel pain, to be sad. You want to be happy.
And I'm sure others wish you happiness too.
There are groups, and people who can help you. But the only person who can really make a difference is you.
I hope you find the strength and determination to get through this hard time. Try to be patient. Time is on your side.
I wish you all the best, and I hope this helps.
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