Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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Hi I am 15 and I really ned some advice. I'm a week late with having my period and I think I might be pregnant. I'm scared of what ill be called at school and I'm afraid of what my family will think. I don't know if I should keep the baby or not... the father is 18 and I'm afraid my mom will think it was rape when it wasn't . I'm so scared I'm not ready for a littl baby :( (link)
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Some people would say, "Maybe you should have thought about that before you opened your legs. All teenagers who are 'ready' for sex, should also be ready for the responsibility that comes along with it."
Most of it is true, but hunnie, I'm not downing you at all, sweetheart. I'm really not. I've had my fair share of pregnancy scares, first thing you want to do is stay calm. The more you stress the more it'll delay your period, okay? Now, have your periods always been regular, or have they often been a little late?
If they have been regular, than take a home pregnancy test. Any brand will do; take it first thing in the morning. That type of pee is the most accurate. You can buy one at any age, and they have some for $1 and some up to $10. Although, you get what you pay for. All of them will work the same; but to give myself a bit of ease, I bought a more expensive one.
If it comes back negative, and your period is still late, than don't freak out. Have you been stress? Working out? Weight gain? Bad diet?
Those things can make your period late, along with other things.
Have you talked to your boyfriend about it?
If you are pregnant, personally, I am against abortion. Like I stated before, if you are ready for sex, than you should be ready for the consequences that come with it, like a baby. There is always adoption. Why kill an innocent baby's life because you and your boyfriend had sex and wasn't cautious about it? Its not the baby's fault, ya know?? Many people have many beliefs. I'm almost 20 years old, and even I'd be scared to tell my parents at my age; its normal. I wouldn't mention it until you knew 100% that you were pregnant. If you really want to know accuratly, than go get a blood test done at a clinic, or at your doctor. Its confidential. Your parents will not have to know about it.
If you do turn out to be NOT pregnant, than please use more caution to use condoms, and even talk to your parents about getting put on birth control. They shouldn't be mad, they should be happy that you are being mature, and responsible.
If your parents don't know that you are sexually active with your boyfriend, and you want to keep it a secret, tell them that you want the birth control just in case, one night things go too far, atleast you'll be prepared. Please remember that birth control will not prevent you from getting pregnant, but it will make the chances less likely.
I wish you the best of luck, and if you need to talk, I am here for you, and I will not judge you.
I'll be praying that you aren't pregnant, because like I said I'm 20, full time job, and going to college, and I couldn't even imagine a child right now.
Please don't heistate to talk to me, okay hunnie?
Good Luck, babygirl.
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