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Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years now. He's never rushed me into things and we both want to have sex. I wanna make sure I know what I'm doing soo I don;t look stupid (by the way I don't know much. Can I get any advice soo I can kinda chill out?? Also, I want to know what I can do AFTER we have sex soo it won't be an awkward situation??? Anything would be great (:
I'm not sure if your boyfriend is a virgin too? But if he is, neither of you will really know what your doing and he will be just as nervous as you.

You've been with this guy for 2 years though. You know him pretty well and he isn't going to judge you. Sex is pretty easy and it takes time to know what you like. Just relax and don't worry everyone gets nervous their first time.

As for after, cuddling is always the best. After I have sex, I love taking a nap with my boyfriend and just enjoy being in his arms. You'll be fine though! :]

Thank you! (:

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