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I am 16 and I just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, I was previously a virgin, he did not cum in me he has alot of self control, trust me I would know and we didn't do it for very long before he popped my cherry and I told him to stop because it hurt. But he DID precum inside me and I would like to know of those risks I know it's possible but unlikely to get pregnant from precum but the bigger picture is what are the risks such as sexually transmitted diseases. I've read online that it's possible to contract chlamydia and ghonneria easier through precum but sometimes the internet doesn't give very valid info like (you have to be ovulating to get pregnant and my friend says that's the stupidest thing she's ever heard and her teacher says it's rediculously easy) but anyone who knows for sure, for a fact, perhaps an educated professional on these things. I just don't want more false information. Please and thank you for your help!

1. Any genital to genital (or even oral to genital) contact has the risk of STDs if your partner has them. If he has had other partners, there is risk.
2. Precum does contain some sperm. Not as much as full ejaculation, but it only takes one sperm to get you pregnant.
3. Yes, you need to be ovulating to get pregnant. Ovulation doesn't last long, so it is a small window you have to worry about. The problem is that, unless you get specific tests that detect the possibility of ovulation, you don't know when that window is. Even if your cycle is generally predictable, you can ovulate any time. I had sex right at the end of my period 13 years ago and I have a son as a result.

From now on: use condoms every time you have sex, consider getting on the pill or other birth control, and make sure you know your partner's sexual history.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for your advice and not being judgemental. I do know his sexual history he doesn't lie to me, but I'm only 16 and I'm pretty sure I have to be over 18 to purchase any form of birth control in NY.
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