Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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Location: Tennessee
Occupation: Full Time College Student
Age: 18
AIM: xxbbyxitsxyouxx
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My boyfriend loves sex! I do to, don't get me wrong, but it's hard to enjoy it when it's so painful, and sadly my boyfriend loves the painful stuff. We did anal one time and I was practically screaming in pain and crying the moment it started. Not once, even when I was crying and trying to hold in the screams of pain did he stop or ask if I was alright. After that he promised he wouldn't put me through that again, but we've done it twice since then and it was the same everytime.
Then there's the "Blowjob"... I throw up every time. After he's finished I run to the bathroom to throw up what he's done to me, and he just watches me throw up from the bedroom like he's watching tv and my pain is nothing to him. I love him so so much but I don't want to have to be in pain to please him. (link)
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If you throw up after a blow job, why do you do it? If Anal hurts so bad you scream and cry, why do you do it? Obviously you like it because you aren't doing anything to stop it.
If I was you, I'd be straight up with him. Let him know that you aren't going to give him head anymore because of what it does to you. And he if he wants to have sex, than he can stick it in your vagina and not in your ass.
How old are you? How old is your boyfriend? How long have you guys been together?
A relationship takes two people. Even in the sexual department. You have to communicate with each other what you guys like, so its pleasurable for you BOTH!
If he gets mad that you do not want to do anal or blow jobs anymore, than that will show you that the user you gave a "4" below me, is right. He is only with you for sexual desires and needs. If he gets mad, but doesn't leave you- than tell him that you aren't gong to do anything else with him until he learns to respect your feelings.
Personally, your an idiot for continuing to do things that cause you pain and vomiting. I guess because if it was me, I DON'T GIVE A FLYING HOOT HOW MUCH I LOVE A GUY- I'M NOT GOING TO DO ANYTHING THAT HURTS OR HARMS ME.
But i guess it would be helpful to know ages and the length of how long you guys have been together.
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I'm not looking for insults thanks. I'm 21 & he's 19... We've been together for just about 3 years now.... He's my longest yet... He has given up so much just to be with me already. The sex is the only problem between us, I think the main cause is the porn he finds.
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