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Q: 13/f
I was with my cousin today hes 18 and he was touching in the wrong places. I told him to stop, but he said that he knows I like it. Now I feel really dirty what should i do.
I know how you feel. I was sexually abused at 13 as well. Its hard enough having it done to you let alone a family member doing it. I waited years before I told anyone and I really regret it. I think you should talk to your parents. You can even talk to your counselor at school first. Its sometimes easier talking to someone that you don't really know first. I want you to remember it is not your fault not one bit and there is support groups please take advantage of them. I didn't tell anyone and ended up not caring and ended up pregnant at 15. Get some help hun. It will get better.

thank you but i am afraid to say anything. i will try but i feel so bad and dirty i cant say it out loud to anyone :'(

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.

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