Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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I've been in a relationship for a year and a half, and the other day some girl(not knowing I was dating someone) messaged me on FaceBook. She goes to my school and thought I was cute, and asked if I liked to talk dirty. She seemed nervous about the fact that I was in a relationship, but for a few nights we sexted a few times.
Today, right before we finished out working out a place to meet, I told her I couldn't go through with it. I told her she's a great person, and she deserves better, and that she'll find someone who can see how great she is. I told her that neither of them deserved that treatment, and that I was really sorry.
I stopped it before it was too late, and instead of everyone hurting a lot, she was just a little disappointed but relieved.
My questions are these:
Did I go about solving this the right way in the end?
Should I come clean to my girlfriend, or leave it because nothing ended up happening?
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You made the wrong decision by actually texting this girl;
you made the right decision by ending it.
Don't listen to the user below me. You should always be honest with your girlfriend/boyfriend. Thats how a relationship works.
How would you feel if your girlfriend was saying "Oh, I wish I could stick your hard cock in my tight, wet vagina" TO ANOTHER GUY!
Would you want her to tell you? Would you want her to keep it from you?
How would you feel?
You should really be ashamed. Your girlfriend deserves a lot better than you. You may have been faithful phsyically, but not emotionally, or verbally. Words hurt, ALOT.
You need to come clean, or your relationship will just fade away. Any guy who could keep something like this from their girlfriend, doesn't even deserve to have a relationshp in the first place.
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The question was if I should tell her, and if I ended it the RIGHT way. I know I made the wrong decision in the first place. I realize that I screwed up, and I feel terrible about it.
I understand that she deserves better. I completely agree with that. But as long as she's willing to give me another chance, I won't turn it down. I won't turn it down because this will not happen again - ever. And if it does, I won't let her give me another chance. I don't really even deserve the chance she is giving me now. Yes, I told her. Yes, she is pissed - and rightfully so. But more than being pissed, she was hurt. But at least I was honest. At least I was able to stop it before it went too far.
But you telling me how horrible I am is not ok. I didn't ASK to be judged, because I already KNOW I made a horrible mistake. And don't act as if you don't make mistakes. Don't act like you've never screwed up before. Maybe you haven't messed up like this, but you are not perfect. No one is perfect.
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