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I've been in a relationship for a year and a half, and the other day some girl(not knowing I was dating someone) messaged me on FaceBook. She goes to my school and thought I was cute, and asked if I liked to talk dirty. She seemed nervous about the fact that I was in a relationship, but for a few nights we sexted a few times.
Today, right before we finished out working out a place to meet, I told her I couldn't go through with it. I told her she's a great person, and she deserves better, and that she'll find someone who can see how great she is. I told her that neither of them deserved that treatment, and that I was really sorry.
I stopped it before it was too late, and instead of everyone hurting a lot, she was just a little disappointed but relieved.
My questions are these:
Did I go about solving this the right way in the end?
Should I come clean to my girlfriend, or leave it because nothing ended up happening?
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I believe you did the right thing about ending things with that girl.
Now with the coming clean to your girlfriend or not, I think you should tell her. You know relationships are based off trust, if you don't tell her and she somehow finds out that you sexted with this one girl from somebody else she will most likely be even more mad than she would be if you just told her. I'm not going to lie she's going to be pissed and I'm not saying she's going to forgive you, I don't know her personally. But would you rather her find out from you or from somebody else?
And that is all I have to say about that (:
Good luck!
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Thank you so much for the advice. I decided to tell her, and I told her earlier today. She was pissed, and even more than that she looked like she needed to cry. I regret ever having put her in this situation in the first place, but she was a little bit comforted by the fact that I was honest, realized I screwed up, and stopped it before it got too serious.
There will definitely be tension for at least a little while, but it's better that she found out from me and not from someone else. We'll manage to work through it.
Again, thank you.
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