Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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So I recently met this guy, thing is...I've known him sience we were little. we apparently stopped talking because he went to juvy wen he was 6 for grand theft auto. We started dating on christmas of 2011 (last year). My life has been amazing ever sience! I love being with him, around him, and anything that has to do with seeing him. Right now, he is 15 and I'm 13 (don't tell me I'm too young for anything I'm going to say). He is in a residential center right now until march. He has done stuff he isn't proud of, but he tells me that he loves me and is going to change once he gets out. I've also done things I'm not so proud of, so we can relate. I feel like i can trust him, but the thing is.....we usually see eachother on saturdays when he gets out on pass..but yesterday...he didn't show up. I have no idea what is going on and I'm kinda getting scared. I think something happened, but I don't know what. Time for the weird and personal stuff.....he had sex with one of my friends friend, but he only used her for sex....nothing else....he. never loved her, but he told her he did....my friend keeps telling me that he truly does love me, and that if he didn't...he wouldn't go through so much hassle just to be with me...we've been dating for almost 2 months, the girl he only used for sex dated him for 2 weeks, then he dumped her. He hasent tried to rush things with me at all! That is what im suprised about. I dont know what to do! I just think he would cheat on me once he gets out, because my mother keeps telling me that he is using me for a safe place to go when he gets out on his passes....soo... ..my questions are...
#1: Does he seem pretty honest?
#2: Do you think i should trust him?
#3: Do you think he would cheat on me when he gets out?
#4: Do you think he is just using me?
#5: What could I do to show him i truly love him?
#6: Is it weird to worry this much about him?
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I was your age when I dated a bad boy.
I thought his past was his past, and he would change for me like he promised he would.
HE NEVER DID.
People like that never change. They may for a couple of weeks, but they always go back to their old ways.
From past experience, and heart ache. Please move on.
1. He isn't honest. If he was honest, he wouldn't have used that girl. If he uses her, than he's going to use you. You are no different than that other girl in his eyes. Your young, naive, and very gullable. Guys like him, take advantage of that. He will tell you what you want to hear, just because he knows he can.
2. I wouldn't trust him. Why should you?
3. YES! He is only talking and keeping you around because you are the ONLY girl who will stick around through his immature bullcrap. He doesn't like you, or love you. As soon as he is out, he will be on his way without you.
4. YES!
5. Nothing. He doesn't deserve your time and effort.
6. Eh, its half and half. It's normal because you think that he cares about you; but he doesn't. He's selfish and will only continue to care about himself.
The thing that happened where he didn't show up, is because he doesn't care.
Trust me when I say this; MOTHERS ARE ALWAYS RIGHT. They don't just feed you all this nonsense just becaus they think they can. THey see what you don't. THey want what is best for their little girl. Your her babygirl, and she loves you. She wants to protect you, so please take her advice, and move on.
You do know that if you are hanging around someone with a bad reputatin, it makes others look down upon you too right? Other guys won't want you, and parents will not want their kids around you. Is he really worth all of that? Is this guy, who isn't giving you the proper love and attention worth ruining future relationships??
No. He isn't.
Move. On. NOW.
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thank you you used to be nice sometim you just have to hear somthin more then once you turn mean against me jus cuz i asked twice!
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