Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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My boyfriend has had really bad luck with girls. Hes had about 20 girlfriends and seventeen cheated and three died. I havent done anything to make him believe im cheating but he thinks I am. He wont believe me and he says if they did I am. I dont know what to do to get him to believe me. I love him so much but he cant see it. My question is how can I get through this rough patch? He basically just says yeah thats what they all say. :/ (link)
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Leave him.
Trust me on this one. He will always remain to accuse of you something you aren't doing. He shouldn't be making you pay the mistake of his ex's. You aren't them. You are a whole new person. You aren't them. This isn't fair to you.
I know you love him, but sweetie- he doesn't love you. If he loved you, he would give you the benefit of the doubt.
What you need to do, is let him go. Tell him
"Stop making me pay for the mistakes your ex's made. It isn't fair. How would you feel if I always accussed you of cheating, just because a guy from my past cheated on me? Would it be fair?
Let him know, that you deserve to be treated equally, not just half. When he decides that he can trust you, than you will be here. But until then, you aren't sticking around.
He should trust you until you give him a reason not too. A relationship is NOTHING without trust. You will always feel like you are walking on eggshells. Is that how you want to live? You will never be fully happy, because you will constantly be put down for something you never did!
You can't talk to him, because he doens't care to listen. So your screwed. You just need to show him what he has, because obviously he is blind.
He needs to focuse on himself, and not be with you. He needs to learn how to trust again, before jumping into another relationship.
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It is REALLY hard to walk away but you and the dangernerd person made me see that there is no hope because he is full of shit. THANK YOU!
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