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My boyfriend has had really bad luck with girls. Hes had about 20 girlfriends and seventeen cheated and three died. I havent done anything to make him believe im cheating but he thinks I am. He wont believe me and he says if they did I am. I dont know what to do to get him to believe me. I love him so much but he cant see it. My question is how can I get through this rough patch? He basically just says yeah thats what they all say. :/ (link)
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Your boyfriend is a liar who manipulates your actions in order to assuage his insecurities.
There is no man on earth who has dated 20 women and had 17 of them cheat on him. That is a flat out lie, he made that shit up so that he would have a plausible reason to be a controlling asshole and make you feel sorry enough for him that you wouldn't just walk away the second his controlling nature reared it's ugly head.
The only real question here is how much longer are you going to buy his bullshit before you walk. There is no hope for you, he is an unashamed manipulative liar who hold you responsible for others actions because it lets him control you.
Run. Run fast, and run far. Or don't and watch him box up your life and put it in the attic in order to make him "feel secure" in your relationship. He keeps you on the defensive so that you're too busy trying to convince him that you're worthy of trust to see through him and realize that he does not deserve yours.
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Thank you! You kinda said exactly what the advicer before you said but it didnt hurt to hear it twice. I dumped him because of you guys. THANK YOU!
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