Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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Ok so I have a bf atm and we have been dating since November 4th. He is really sweet and amazing. I love him very much. But, this other guy started talking to me on MSN and Im kinda falling for him. The other guy confesses to me all the time that he loves me and wants to make out with me. My Bf and the other guy dont really get along. And my Bf doesnt know that the other guy talks to me. The other guy asked me that if he kissed me if i would kiss him back and i was weak with all the things he was saying to me like (hey babe, sup beautiful...) and sadly said yes. I feel bad about saying i would and cant come to tell my Bf about what i said. I want to be honest but I dont want him to break up with me, he's my first bf. Im scared and dont know what to do, I told the other guy today that if he kissed me i would slap him and he said "kissing you would be worth the slap". Problem is, i want to kiss him, I dont wanna cheat on my Bf at all! I dont wanna hurt my bf either. And another thing is that I dream about the other guy 24/7 :( I feel bad about the whole thing and wish i could just end my horrible life and this mess. Plz help me bc i love my bf but also like this other guy and kinda wanna kiss him, HELPP!! if no one does, chances are I'll be dead in a week. :'( (link)
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So you are threating to kill yourself if no one helps you out? Thats pathetic. Grow up.
You don't deserve either guy, honestly. If you are falling under temptations, than do your boyfriend a favor and break up with him. He deserves better. The other guy doesn't deserve you either.
If you are tempted while you have a boyfriend; than when you get with this dude, you'll get temptations as well. You need to just stay single, until you can figure out how to carry a decent, committed relationship, otherwise your just wasting these boys' time, and your own.
BE SINGLE! I don't know why girls feel like they need a guy to be happy. If you don't think its fair to your boyfriend, than break up with him, and do not get with the other guy. How would it make you feel if you knew your boyfriend wanted to kiss another girl? If he was talking to her the way your talking to this dude?? How would you feel if he left you and got with that girl?
You'd feel like shit, right? RIGHT.
So until your a little more mature, don't get into a relationship.
I mean I would say that you need to be honest with your boyfriend, but chances are, you'll just do it again. But if you really care about this guy hunnie, than you need to be honest. If he breaks up with you, than you will know better next time. Ya know? It's your first relationship, so your learning as you go. You aren't perfect. I do give you props for not cheating on him, but what you are allowing this other guy to think can end up with you cheating while being caught off guard.
Just relax. Be honest. If all else fails, just leave them both alone.
Good Luck!
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Rating: 5
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Rating changed: You were right! I was too stupid to see it. THANK YOU!
Old response:Tht made me feel horrible :( but thanx for trying
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