Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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What age do most girls loose their virginity? i am 13 is that ok? (link)
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I would say when they are married, but in this time in day, most girls begin to lose their virginity around 16-19.
Personally, you are too young to be having sex. When I was your age, I use to want to have sex, but than I realized that if I got pregnant, I would be TOO young for a kid, and my parents would disown me.
Whats the rush in having sex? Whats in it for you? Have you found a guy who will love you for enterity? DO you want to have regrets?? Once you start having sex, it will be hard for you to stop. Than you will end up with multible partners, and you will never have a stable relationship because guys will think that you are easy, and you probably will be. No guy will want a relationship with a girl who lost their viringity at 13, and no guy will want to be with someone long term because they won't respect you, because you don't respect yourself.
If you are seriously wanting to have sex, than you need to talk to your dad or mom about getting put on birth control. If you are too scared because you think they are going to be mad, than thats a sign that you aren't even responsible enough to be having intercourse.
God forbid that you get pregnant. All it takes is one time. One times and thats it. HOw would you feel walking around your school, pregnant? The mean stares, gossip, and even your teachers looking down upon you?? That stuff really happens. You could always put it up for adoption; but personally, abortion is out of the picture; why blame an innocent child's life just because you wanted to open your legs AT 13, and get pregnant?
Thing long and hard. Guys will respect you more if you still have your virginity.
This is what helped me get my virginity.
I always thought about the day I got married, and went on my honeymoon.
I thought about having my husband, and him telling me that he saved himself me for me. That I am his first, than I thought about me telling him "Oh I'm sorry. I had sex when I was 13, and I've had 12 sex partners" you know how disgusted I would feel??
Luckily, I'm engaged, and me & my boyfriend are both virgins. It was one of the most beautiful moments I have ever witnessed.
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your story is INSPIRING! i don't know ANYONE else that is waiting and i am the last person i know who hasnt had sex and that is why i really wanted to, but you TOTALLY changed my mind! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!
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