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17/f. I've never really had a good relationship. I've been cheated on, lied to & disrespected. On Wednesday I met this guy(andrew) through my friend (it's her boyfriends cousin) and he asked if I wanted to hang out with him. We went to the park and the mall and hit it off real good but it seems as if something's not rite because he seems too perfect. He's 19, VERY respectful, and he claims to be loyal. He's been snoking cigarrettes since he was 14 and when i told him i didnt like that he told me he would quit for me. The next day he came to my school to visit me and it went good too. I can help but try to look for something bad about him because I'm not used to it. How can I stop being paranoid that he's goin to hurt me? We've been talking everyday and he tells me everything does.
My friend says that you should try to hurt his feelings first to see how he reacts to it and see what he does. does he threatens to kill you or is he okay with it and can say i can move on and doesn't hurt you. If he is ok then you can tell him you were testing him and that you like him.
I think you should talk to him and see what he says. Tell him how you feel about him and that you disagree that he is perfect. Talking is the best way to get info quickly.
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Talking is good, so you are smart, but your friend is stupid. Sorry. once you are mean to someone they never forget it and it leaves scars that never heal. i KNOW this because people have been mean to me then said they didn't mean it. when i believed them, they used me. don't EVER do what your friend said. Thank YOU but not your friend! ;)
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