Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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I have been best friends with this guy for three years. He's my rock, he gets me through everything. We text everyday and hangout every weekend. I have no romantic feelings for him, I think. All I know is I wanna hook up with him sooooooo bad. He's expressed how he doesn't want another relationship for the rest of highschool but that he'd really like a f*ck buddy. I wanna volunteer! Haha but how do I do this without making things AWKARD? I really don't think it'll ruin friendship. We've both admitted were extremely attracted to each other. And I really just want a no strings attached kinda thing. Help?? (I'm sixteen, girl. He's 18, boy). (link)
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This is a bad idea. First off, if you and this boy have sex, its known as rape. Just because he is an adult and you are a minor.
You will do what you want to do, but let me tell you something from experience. I was 15 and I was bestfriends with a 17 year old boy. We were inseperable. We were so attracted to each other, but feelings weren't there.
So we became friends with benefits; the first time we did something sexual; I began to develop feelings for him. When he started liking another girl, I got so jealous.
I'm not saying you will develop feelings for him, but there is a chance. Your not even sure if there are romantic feelings; you question yourself.
Figure that out before you do anything.
If you realize that you don't have any, than go for it. Like I said, you will do what you want to do, and the only thing I can do is assist you and help you with your decision.
So, casually bring up him wanting a fuck buddy,
and be like "You know, I've been thinkin, and I want the same thing. Something casual with no strings attach" wait for what he says, and than say "We should be each others since we are already comfortable with each other."
and see what he says; if he is against it, don't take it to heart. Just be like, why? Once he answers it, be like 'I understand. If you ever change your mind, I'm here ;)'
I hope I helped. If you need anything else, please don't heistate to inbox me.
Good Luck!
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Thank your adressing every possible path! Haha cause in indiana, age of consent is 16. It's not illegal.
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