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I'm in a serious relationship with a girl and have been in a relationship with her for almost a year and a half. Everything is going great, and it's really looking like I could spend my life with this woman. We're both 18, and we spend most of our time together and we almost NEVER fight.

But a few days ago I found out something about myself... Ever since I was old enough to even think about this, I've known that I was heterosexual. But it turns out, I just never bothered to think otherwise. I didn't cheat on my girlfriend, but I saw something that turned me on. So it turns out I'm bisexual(my girlfriend is too), but I don't know how to tell her, especially since there had to be something to trigger my realization.

Does anyone have any advice on how I should tell her?

Thanks,
Anon (link)
sometimes to talk about something is better to joke abour it..maybe you should go to a gay club and tell her slowly its a 2 way street it would open diffent doors for bouth of you but once there open things might change and will be hard to go backand hope theres no rejections..shes bi u exceot that have a 3some and tell her u curious and see what she says maybe its better for bouth of you better to say what you want then cheat


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No offense, but I think this is quite possibly the most blunt approach possible... Also, I never intended on doing anything with someone else while I was in a relationship with her. I am not going to cheat. And - for the same reasons I would not cheat on her - we are not a couple that is likely to involve a third person. At all. I know you might be into that, and a lot of people are, but not everyone is.




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