I'm a junior in highschool, during the school week I take my best friend Jessica to school and home ai dont charge her gas money. At the beginning of the school year we would hang out on weekends and basically every chance we got so I didn't mind giving her a free ride. but, recently she has only talked to me when it's convenient for her. She doesn't text me on weekends, like i'll text her on friday and ask if she wants to hang out and she'll never reply but then she'll reply to my text messages that involve her getting to school that following monday. Right now, where on christmas break I haven't hung out with her once! i've texted her so many times and she doesn't reply, i'll get on twitter and see her tweets. If thats not being used, then I don't know what used is. When we go back to school, I want to tell her either you give me gas money or no ride for you, but I don't want to be harsh about it. I've been thinking this through and I honestly dont want to give her a ride period but since we have the same first period and the same last period it's kind of hard to get out of that. How can I tell her from now on I want gas money without being rude? and how can I confront her about how I am tired of her using me again without being rude?
she doesn't sound like a best frend to me. as i always say try talking to her but if that doesn't work you've got to think about what's best for you. tell her how u feal. that u feal used and like she doesn't want to b frends with u for u. sometimes we've just got to pore out our hearts and hope for the best but if we don't let people know how we feal they wont change the way they act and we'll go on fealling rotten.
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I'm going to talk to her.. I wanted to know what to say.
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