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Hey. I am a 19 year old girl. I like this guy (he is 21) but he has a girlfriend. We communicate mostly through text. He is a really good friend of mine. I met him last year. And since I started liking him, I started texting even more, in order to get his attention. To be really honest, I was hopeful. And we chatted through texts. He is open, easy going and honest. I told him that I like him through text. He said he can take me on a date. Now we kept texting. But he has a life of his own, and a busy one. I kept texting and it happened so that when he got drunk, we talked dirty. Then after some time I felt disgusted because it seemed like I am a concubine of some sort. So I started insisting on walking away and that also I told him and went mad on him, seriously overreacting. My mistake. Sigh. The hope still has’t gone away. I text and wait for his reply, sometimes. I really like him, and there are many reasons. But the truth is he doesn’t know me much, and we never got to spend too much time together since we live in different cities. And so he doesn’t like me that way. I am not able to gte over this crush, I have tried hard. I need some help. I don’t want to appear needy before him, which I never do when it’s somebody other than him. I want to attract him but not force him into it. He is in a long distance relationship and it seems to me that he loves her, genuinely. I want to get rid of my texting him and waiting for replies. What should I do? Should I still keep hope? Should I walk away? (whichI don't want to :( )
Looking forward for an advice that helps.
Thank you in advance.
- Spirit
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First let me tell you something.I have the same experience.There was this girl whom I really liked and wanted to date her so badly.But then she had a boyfriend.So I was like trying to break them up.Posting some stupid comments on that girl's wall.But then I figured out that it'll never work out.I tried my best to make her mine.But I could never do that.Then eventually I had to accept the fact that YOU ALWAYS DONT GET EVERYTHING THAT YOU WANT IN LIFE.But there was this other girl who really liked me.So I gave her a shot.She is just amazing.We got along pretty well.And she really loves me.Now its been like 6 months for our relationship.And she made me forget all of my problems.So I got through everything.
I DID WALK AWAY FROM THAT 1ST GIRLS LIFE.BUT WALKING AWAY DOESNT MEAN THAT YOU ARE LOOSING.SOMETIMES YOU SHOULD LET GO THINGS,FOR SOMETHING BETTER TO COME UP.SO HAVE FAITH AND ITS BETTER IF YOU CAN WALK AWAY.
REMEMBER THERE ARE ALWAYS LOT OF PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO REALLY LOVES YOU.
SO GIVE IT A SHOT.ITS BETTER TO WALK AWAY AND EXPLORE SOMETHING NEW.
HOPE THIS WILL HELP.
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hmm, so you think I should walk away completely? It is hard, but thank you. :)
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