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I've been seeing this guy for over a month now. We get along great, we like the same things and we hang out basically every weekend. He is one of the few guys I can be completely myself around, even being the sensible or crazy me lol and he told me that's exactly how he feels.


Just the other weekend we were kissing and making-out when he paused and said "I like you... Really really like you... You are the one." When he said this I was a little suprised and kissed him again. Now he's got me thinking if he really meant that cuz he did have a few beer in him. I am cautious about who I give my heart too, but I just want to know what you think. When a guy says this is he actually thinking 'long term'? (link)
And the mystery continues...
It's hard to say because everyone is different and I don't know him personally. Sometimes people say things when they are drunk most people call this speaking with a 'sober mind'. It's the things we would never say when we are sober but we are drunk it just ends up coming out. I think you're right to be cautious because if a guy can only say things to you when he's drunk that's not a good sign. Have you tried talking to him and talking about what he said the other night? Ask him! See what he says and get an idea of whats going on. When a guy thinks 'long term' he has you in mind for his future plans and wants to hang out with you and goes all the way to the moon and back. However you mentioned you've only been dating a month I think you need to slow down and just think about the present and just let it be.


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Thank you. I know what you mean




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