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I meet this guy a month ago. he is very nice and very outgoing. the past few days he started changing, he tells em im going to call you but he never does, i invited him to a party but he never went. he decided to go with his friends somewhere else. i wrote to him telling him how i dint wanted to see him again because he is a lier. he told me he wanted to see me tonight to talk things out but guess what? he never called me to hang out and talk. I came to a point where i cant handle this anymore. I was catching feelings for him but i guess that's going to start fading. Im so dissapointed tho :( I don't know what to do. what will you do in this situation? (by the way he is a taxy driver)
So in my opinion, this guy isn't going to change in the near future. I don't know him but I'm getting the sense that he's one of those type of guys that talks to a bunch of girls at once and calls them all "babe" and such but isn't really looking for something serious and the reality in that is no matter how great you are, it's really hard to change a guy like that. Especially if he's still young and if you've only known him for a short period of time. I think that you were right in saying that he's a liar and you didn't want to see him again. If he is so unreliable that you can't even trust he's going to call you back when he says he will, how in the world are you going to be able to trust him when he says he won't cheat on you or with something more than a phone call? You can't.
I say drop him. You've only known him for about a month so it's not like some long-term relationship where you guys are in love and now he's suddenly changing, THIS IS WHO HE IS. And I know it sounds wonderful in your head to say "Oh, I'm going to be THAT girl that the player falls for and now he's suddenly in love and trustworthy..." I've had my fair share of fantasies like that and trust me when I say they ain't gonna work out the way you want, honey. He's not worth it. I get that it's disappointing, it's always great to meet a guy that seems awesome! But once you get under the surface, under all the charm and smiles and winning you over, and you realize he's actually an asshole, then it's time to say goodbye. I say you're too good for him and you don't deserve to be played. Go find a great guy who actually deserves you and will treat you right! I know sometimes it might seem like those guys don't exist, but they do. Patience is the key. Oh, that and weeding out all the losers. Trust your instinct, and I know your instinct says leave him. It'll end up being the right choice, letting him string you along and then hurt you is totally avoidable. Good luck!! :)
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thank you soo much!
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