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I meet this guy a month ago. he is very nice and very outgoing. the past few days he started changing, he tells em im going to call you but he never does, i invited him to a party but he never went. he decided to go with his friends somewhere else. i wrote to him telling him how i dint wanted to see him again because he is a lier. he told me he wanted to see me tonight to talk things out but guess what? he never called me to hang out and talk. I came to a point where i cant handle this anymore. I was catching feelings for him but i guess that's going to start fading. Im so dissapointed tho :( I don't know what to do. what will you do in this situation? (by the way he is a taxy driver) (link)
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This happens to so many amazing young women- I will just give you a few of my thoughts. Women tend to be very caring, loving, nurturing creatures. When we meet a man who is fun, happy, and cute, we start to want to spend more time with him, and start to care for him. It's part of our nature! Attraction is a wonderful thing.
Something to keep in mind is that attraction is also different for guys than girls, and of course, different for every person. You have only known him a month! He sounds like a fun guy, but one that might not feel the same way you do YET. Maybe he isn't very interested, or maybe it just takes him time to get to the same level of emotion that you are.
Now keep a few things in mind.
-Not every guy is "the one". There are certainly some great, charismatic guys who aren't interested in developing relationships yet. They make great friends, but maybe not the best boyfriends!
-He might wish you well. Just because he has sort of blown you off, that doesn't mean he doesn't like you. He could be nervous about seeing you, or feel awkward talking about emotions with you. You can't force him to do things with you, but you can try your best to make him feel welcome and comfortable by just befriending him.
-All that said, every woman deserves a man who will take time to do the things she enjoys- Like going to parties or social gatherings- and also take the time to make her feel appreciated. You certainly deserve a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on when you are sad.
In any case, men usually aren't as open to real relationships and emotions as women are. Try not to be disappointed, but be understanding. Get to know him, try new things that he enjoys, become his friend, and then maybe he will be ready for a relationship.
Best of luck to you!
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