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Hey there(: So first off at the end of 7th grade I really started liking this boy who I knew liked me from the first of my 7th grade year he was in 6th. Well I knew he liked me that was no worries, so my friend got us together I was sooo happy(: We texted every other day and he was alwayss soooo sweet and I really thought he was cute. Well after a while we started slowing down with texting because his phone was broke. So we never got to talk plus he is a grade younger than me so I never see him. Now that we have been going out 3 months going on 4, we barely talk at alll! and I'm starting even tho I know its wrong to texts other guys in my grade that like me or etc. And I'm starting to like guys in my own grade that I actualy see everyday. Plus there is this one new boy who has the most beautifulest hair, eyes, eyelashes, smile like a pixie (laughs) and he plays basketball and soccer, and hes in all the honor classes. My friend thinks we'd look cute together and wants to get us together. My problem is Im petrified of breaking up with people. I hate it I feel so bad and wind up crying, I hate it because I know my bf realllly likes me. Also when we text he is really sweet. So I don't know what I should do. Plus Im scared that what if I broke up with my bf and the other beautiful boy says no. Although he kinda says yes to like everyone. So I'm so confused on what I should do please help me!! :p sorry if this was long. Thanks:P -Sarra (link)
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The thing is that at your age, your brain is still developing a lot, which leads to often sudden changes in preferences and how you view the world and the people in it. So you don't really have anything to feel guilty for. You're just experiencing things that happen to everyone. And this breakup won't be your last, either. The fact is that relationships at your age have very short lifespans.
So being able to initiate a breakup is part of the maturation process. Just tell the guy that you feel you are growing apart from him because of how your feelings are evolving and that it's not anyone's fault. Yeah, it won't be fun. But if you don't do it you will only create more drama and life is way too short for drama.
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Hey thanks!(: Thats so true and thats cool I didn't know that the thing you put at the beggining(: So Thanks!!:D
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