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There is this guy I like and I thought he seemed interested in me to but as I'm now realizing he talks to many other girls too. He calls and texts me a lot but I'm not the only one. Maybe I'm over reacting but I don't like that. I don't want to waste my time if he's just going after everyone. What would you do?

It seems to me that there are two options for you. Firstly, you could try ignoring him for a while. He'll miss talking to you and realize that he likes you. However, he could view this as you being immature instead of concerned. On the other hand, you could try having a rational and even-minded conversation with him. Tell him that you think you're starting to like him and see what he says. If he feels the same way, then talk to him about this problem. Don't' accuse him of anything or take a hostile tone with him, though. Just keep it cool and make sure your intentions are clear. Good luck.

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