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Hey, I am a 17 year old female. I have a 17 year old male best friend. We have been best friends since the third day of third grade. I love him like a brother because that is how I see him. Everybody else, however, tells me daily that him and I are going to get married. That "everybody can see that we are in love except for us." I have read numerous places that a boy and a girl can not be best friends because of sexual tension. Either the girl wants to have sex with the boy or the boy wants to have sex with the girl. I completely disagree, my friend and I aren't like that.

What do you guys think? Can a girl and boy be best friends and that's it? (link)
I have been best friend with my guy friend for 10 years. So many people have said that 'we belong together' and we should get married. Heck we still get stuff said to us even today and we've been friends for 10 years. He had a crush on me but I didn't feel the same way but we have remained good friends. He is like an older brother to me anyway. The best thing to do is to ignore everyone. I don't know who came up with the idea the girls and guys can't be friends. I am friends with plenty of guys and its strictly just platonic. Girls and guys can definitely just be friends!


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Thank you, I'm glad someone feels the same way!




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