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Hey all, 24f here, my boyfriend is 23.
This is such a weird question for me to ask, but why not?
We haven't been together too long (a few months), but we've known each other for almost 10 years, so there's a lot of history and a lot of trust. Being that there's a lot of trust/openness and honesty, we've started talking about fulfilling sexual fantasies. I'm still trying to figure out what mine are, having never had the chance to explore that, but one of his is, as most guys, to have a threesome with another girl.
He wants me to pick the girl so it's someone I'm comfortable with. I tried to be open to a couple of his ideas, but when it came down to it I was uncomfortable, and told him so. So, it's on me.
I've actually talked to a couple of my girl friends about this, but one of them is on a different continent for who knows how long, and another is currently in a relationship, though she's not happy... Don't worry, I'd never encourage someone to cheat on their significant other.
I really actually WANT to do this with my boyfriend. My only stipulations were "she has to be clean and tested."
I'm just kind of wondering, has anyone had experience with this kind of stuff? Has anyone successfully had a threesome and had a good experience? Bad experience? How did you initiate? How did you set it all up? That kinda stuff. I need ideas. I've never done this before...
Thanks for your feedback! (link)
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There is no obligation for you to follow through on your boyfriend's fantasies. And generally speaking, threesomes, more often than not, lead to the dissolution of the relationship because it is like introducing a new element into the chemistry you have together and causes it to blow up in your face.
Look, I have nothing against threesomes per se and I've been around the block quite a bit, But I'm just telling you what the risk is. You have to know what you're getting into. Threesomes for men tend to be centered around having as much tits and ass on them during a sex session as possible. There isn't any lovemaking involved. It is just sex. Now if you're fine with that then go for it. But if not, it might put a strain on your relationship.
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All good points. Thank you for the advice. :)
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