Member Since: November 12, 2011
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Last Update: November 12, 2011
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Hey I am 18/F
Well I haven't been a virgin since I was fourteen, I've had about three sexual partners all close boyfriends, I've been checked for stds and I am clean, I've been single for a while now so I've started to experiment with just myself, I've never had an orgasm before, I've had to fake it, sex never even felt especially good, sometimes it did, but not really. Well, I've been touching myself lately, and sometimes it feels really good but in a strange way, I like how it feels but for some reason I just have to stop like it's too much, I've tried to overcome it but I can't, sometimes I get really close and I feel like I am going to orgasm, but then I just pull my hand away and I can't understand why, is there any reason why? And if so is there a way to overcome this and reach my goal?
tips would be appreciated!! (link)
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Having Sex at 14 wasn't a good decision you made sweetie. At that age all the way up to now, it is clear you were not mature or ready. That is one of the things that people have to realize.Your first time should feel special and you should be ready. I think you should put a hold on sex for a while until you are completely ready. In a way, you are still a virgin. You never had a orgasm and have not yet felt that feeling. It can be extremely powerful and makes you feel emotionally attached to that person. I am assuming you have not felt emotionally attached. With those emotions comes us women feeling crazy after the huge breakup or blowout or pain. That's why you HAVE to be ready and mature for this.
Now for this orgasm issue...is it painful and you just stop? If not then maybe you are overwhelmed... I haven't heard a case like this but maybe you're nervous of feeling that. Or again, you should give it time. You are 18 and that's ok if you don't have sex for an amount of time. I'd give yourself 21...it's the age where you are REALLY legal to drink,be mature,party etc. Just promise me you'll be responsible. Have you tried asking your mother about this? Does she know you have had sex? If you don't want to tell her about those details that is fine. But maybe try talking to her about this...masturbation issue? No?
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I agree sex at 14 wasn't a good idea, I thought I was in love haha, I am putting a hold on relationships and sex until I am a bit more mature and the guys in my life are more mature. My mom does know I've had sex, we're really open. Hopefully you are right, I am starting to think I am weird haha.
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