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Hey there, my name's pronounced like chan-dah, rhyming with panda. I'm 16 and a junior in an all girls Catholic high school.


Just a wee bit of a side note: I'm not claiming I know answers, I'm saying I can give options. I'm hoping with Advicenators I can learn as well as help others because, truth be told, I like helping people with problems because it makes me forget about my own & I love discovering and educating myself on new things.


Carrying on, here's some random tidbits about yours truly!:


I'm very diverse. Not only as a means of my heritage (Cambodian, Portuguese, Chinese) but also in reference to my wide range of interests. I've been hip hop dancing my whole life, I cheer for a D1 high school football team, I'm thoroughly involved in various clubs, I've shown much interest in the performing arts, and I am also a karate and MMA feen!


I love to meet new people! Seriously, I could spend hours and hours on Skype with someone just discussing life, politics, relationships,... anything! My crudy webcam never gets in the way of that! ;)


I'm always busy. One would think because of this fact I'd actually want to distance myself away from the computer, as a means of wasting time and what not, but I find it to be a nice reward after hard work with school, AP classes, Tumblring like it's my job, sports, online learning courses, and maintaining a social life.


I'm very crude and raunchy and know lots about the baby-making field, despite my nothing less than holy status. I guess it's part of my personality that loves to make "that's what she said" jokes and perverted puns.


Feel free to ask me anything! No question will be turned away from! That's a promise, xo

advice

I am a simple 20 year old. I look like im in my late 20's and i have to ask, what are characteristics that women want in a man. I'm not talking about that confusing bullshit like charming, confident, gentle, strong, and all that crap. Everyone is different. I've traveled to 25 different countries and ive been alone since i was little. I've been to hell and back, and i just would like to find someone who isnt a heartless gold digger bitch, (pardon my french i mean no disrespect to anyone.) I'm culturally sound, I am wise and profound at times, I'm funny, im kind, and given we all have baggage so we all have problems no one is perfect. Why cant i find someone?

Being only 16, my answer is quite limited but just wondering... have you tried to put yourself out there? Do you go out to social events? Do you make an effort to be flirtatious and be inviting? Do you have mutual friends that you could meet a possible girlfriend from? These all play huge factors. I know sometimes it doesn't matter how much confidence, charm, or "swagger" a guy has, it's about if he has enough balls (to bluntly put it) to make a conversation with an unknown female. Being welcoming is key to finding someone.

It sounds like you're a well-rounded man. I believe with time you'll find the right woman. Don't forget to keep in mind that usually girls in their early 20s are looking for a good party versus a stable relationship. Don't take it personally at all! You WILL find someone, so be it the circumstances fit :) Have hope!

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(Rating: 4) i am a very social person making life long friends everywhere i go is what i do best, and as for being out there ive been around a lot, i mean accross oceans for years at a time, im a bit of a romantic if i do say so myself, the problem isnt keeping the right woman, i just want to get the fish in the boat in a matter of speaking. I guess your right though there girls not woman im looking for the right spot

p.s. I've also been looking for woman out of my age group and i swear on my life im not an ugly bastard, it just doesnt make sense to me yet i guess
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