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Okay so i have a problem.
Im 13 and my older sister is 15.
My cousins(16 & 18yearolds)came to hang out and take us and my little 9 yr old sister shopping and to hang out.
So they went to pick up a boy, Brian(17) and we went to a park and ate some ice cream. Then they brought him home. They hid him under the bed and told my mom they were sleeping over(my cousins) and long story short Brian ended up having UNPROTECTED sex, the rest of us were watching a movie & my LITTLE NINE YEAR OLD sister, me, and my cousin walked in on them.
I feel really disgusted with my sister & cant look her inth eye. Then she BEGGED my older cousin to buy the 'after sex whatever' pills. And she never talks to brian after that. I dont know if that was her first time or if all those times she went to havesleepovers werent such a goo d idea. I want things to go back to nomal, i still love her ( she's my sister) but i really dont think much Of her, She used to be my idol but now i dont wanna be anything like her. But i feel really bad ( even cried a couple of times) but it was kind of my fault too. I picked the lock with my cousin because we just thought they were making out,we thought chrissy knew better then that. What should i do?
Your sister's decisions are your sister's decisions.
You should have not picked the lock like that, that's her privacy.
Just because she is your idol.. and you don't want to be like her.. means you have to be like her.
Follow your own footsteps, I know I don't follow my sister's.. I have learned from both my sister's mistakes not to make the same mistakes.. I have made my own mistakes and what not, but not as nearly like they have. You shouldn't be a follower to anyone, your at the perfect age where you will learn the difference between a leader and a follower.
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice!
Im my own person,thanks for helping me see that.