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There is this guy who I like and I think he likes me back. Recently we've been talking and it's been great. The problem is that when he dosnt text me I freak out but when he does text me I don't want to talk to him. I got I text from him and thought to myself"ugh he's a little pushy I hope he's not like this all the time" but then I realized just a few hours ago I had been glued to my phone waiting for a call or text. I'm so confused. I want to talk to him but then I don't. (link)
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Have you had a bad relationship before where the communication was a little mixed up?
It's normal. Maybe you really like him but you're just protecting yourself. My boyfriend is not into the phone whatsoever he tries. He's not a big texter either. SOmetimes I find myself glued to the phone waiting for his next text or phone call. Other times he'll call or text and I could careless. Sometimes in relationships its about the chase. You want to see how far the person will go for you. In my situation the chase has stopped and we are both comfortable in the relationship with one another. In the beginning the chase starts. At first he's chasing you and then you're chasing him.
You should google the 'settler and the reacher' theory it's very interesting. Hope everything works out and good luck!
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Thank you(: I have slays wanted what I can't have so I guess this situation is no different. I want the "chase" as you said.
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