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ugh its been about 4 years now that i've liked a guy. i haven't gotten over him not even once. i've tried but it doesn't work. everyone tells me to get over him, but i just can't i don't wanna get over him. i've never talked to him, and i don't think i will ever have the courage or strength to... he is a huge star player on his football team. and he is well known all over my school. i can't just tell him how i feel, but i want to. he's know for 4 years that i've liked him. oh btw i'm a sophomore in high school and he's a junior. anyways if i talk to him i know he would tell his friends. i put myself down because of him, and tell myself i'm not good enough for him. he's kinda a bad kid, well that's what i've heard. he smokes and all that crap, but he's not obsessed with it. and i'm all innocent, i've never done any of those things. i just wish i could be with someone like him. i've wanted him for so long, and i don't wanna go on for the rest of high school waiting for him to talk to me. cause i know that's never going to happen. he's so much popular than me and he looks at me a lot.. i figured that means something, right? and i am not a stalker, k? a lot of people think i am because i talk about him all the time, but that's not a stalker. i am just head over heels for this kid. so please just give any advice that you can to help me get through this, thanks. (link)
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You are not a stalker, but you are a little obssesed with him. I definitely know how it feels to be obsessed with a guy, but most of time, being obsessed with a guy is bad because it has bad consequences. Just put yourself in his shoes, imagine you were him and he was you. How would you feel if a guy secretly liked you and talks about you and all he thinks about is you an you do not even like him? We can't always have what we want. The crush that I use to have before was an enormous crush that I used to think about and I was his friend too and I thought I could never forget him. Until I realized that all I wanted was for him to be happy. That is the best love that one can give. You should not put yourself down because you are just as capable as being important as him. First, you should never put yourself down or a guy instead have some confidence in yourself because guys really look at that. I mean, not a super cocky high-self esteem, but definitely appreciate yourself. Who cares if he does not like you if he not the only guy in this world? There are probably a few other guys who interested in you that you do not know about. It does not hurt to talk to your crush and maybe be acquaintances because what you feel may be lust or infatuation and maybe you will open your eyes and see that he may or may not be the guy for you. I think you want him to look to at you a lot or he wants to make sure that the feeling that you have for him is true. Again, you have to talk to him because it would take such a long time for him to talk to him and just get to know him to see if your feelings are right. Remember to act normal; be yourself and that he is not the only guy in the world because there are other nice guys who would love you the way you are.
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holy crap! you give AMAZING ADVICE!!!! (: thanks soooo much! i guess i never realized that... and you pointed out things that i've never tried before! thank you so much!
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