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I'm just an average person. I love to help people out :) it makes me feel better about myself. I've been in a lot of situations so I can most likely relate to a lot of your problems. I know what it feels like to not have anyone to talk to about your problems, which is why i'm an advicenator. I'm ready to help people and be there for everyone who needs advice or just a companion to speak out to. I'm always here if you need me, don't hesitate to drop a question or even just a vent/rant note about a problem to my advice column inbox. I respond to all of them regardless of the topic. I'm upfront and abrupt about my answers and never sugarcoat. Take my advice or not, but i'm just doing my job :)Played volleyball for over 10 years, also a coach. I love to try new things. Currently I'm trying the new sport of tennis and learning about my passion of photography.
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I seriously need help. I am 18 years old and this past year I have noticed that I don't have any emotions towards anyone. I am not anti-social, I have many friends and I don't have a problem in that area. I've tried to tell my best friend that I don't have feelings for anything but he thought I meant I had no feelings for boys, so he basically called me a lesbian or bi. He was no help at all. I tried explaining it a different way but he still didn't get it. I am not happy or sad or depressed...it's like I'm empty. For the most part I'm just blah. I don't really know how to explain it. It's weird. When I'm with my friends I'm fine. When I think about relationships I don't feel a single thing. When I kiss someone, you would think I would feel something, but I feel nothing. I see these couples on TV and movies and I want that. I want to feel happy. I haven't wanted anyone, so I tried sleeping with someone. Still I felt nothing. I thought this would help but it didn't. When someone asks me how I'm doing I respond fine because I don't know what else to say. I'm not sure if I'm bored or if there is something wrong with me. It's just like I'm existing but not living if that makes sense. Can someone help me please.
I think you're just bored with your life. Try new things! Do something to get some excitement in your life! Try taking risks like going sky-diving, going on new rollercoasters, taking a road trip to a place you've never been to and discover new things. It doesn't have to be so grand.. you can try smaller things like dying your hair a different color, getting highlights, new haircut, trying a new fashion taste or going to a different store and buying new clothes there.
I used to be like this too. I had no emotions. No happiness, no sadness, just blah. I was just bored of my life. A major change happened in my life. My mom got a promotion in her job and she had to move to a different country. That was a huge change for me and because of that change, I started feeling emotions again. i got sad because I didn't see her as much. I felt love because I realized how much she means to me. Then I started making changes on my own. I got new friends and I got happy to be around them. I colored my hair which I absolutely love and proud to wear :) I used to be a shy girl who never went out, but I changed that and went out dancing and had fun. Met new people (ahem guys.. haha) and tried new things. It was fun and I enjoyed my life :)
Good luck!!!
(Rating: 5) when i'm with friends i'm completely fine. but thank you i will try new things