Hello, call me Abby =] I'm eighteen and a senior in high school this year. I've always had great advice, I'm just not so great at following it =P Feel free to ask me anything, I'll do my best to give you an answer.
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I have this friend who is two years younger than. He is really cute, and I had a huge crsuh on him for a while, but he told me that he was straight so I just dropped it. Well, our conversations are almost always about sexual topics. We have talked about a lot of things. And he asked me to send him a pic of myself. And he knows I am gay, and I was just joking and said "Do you want me to be naked with a boner? Lol!" And his reply was "Kinda." And I was just thrown for a loop. I mean, I sent him one and he said he was going to use it to masturbate with, and I jokingly asked him for a nude shot and he just went with it and sent me a nude of himself with an erection. I was so stunned! I mean, I liked what I saw and it made me kinda start to think I should try to talk to him. Then I asked him, "Ok, I have asked you this before, but are you into guys?" And he replied, "No, it is just what I jack off to. I am not into guys, it just what I like to jack off to." And then he went to bed. I am so confused by all of this. He is a cute sweet guy and we have the same morals. I want to pursue a relationship with him, but he says that he is straight, he just likes to jack off to guys. I am so confused by all of this! Any advice?? (link)
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This guy is playing with you.
It sounds like he IS gay, but doesn't want to be out to the world. He wants to get his sexual pleasure from male images but then be straight, at least to everyone else.
He doesn't know himself yet, and if he isn't sure with his sexuality then he isn't ready to be in a relationship with you.
I wouldn't give in to his requests for nude pics or sexual chats, because it seems like he is just using you.
You can try to have a serious conversation with him about this, but him accepting his sexuality, whatever it is, will have to come in it's own time.
Good luck,
-Abby
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The advice was brutal, but it was as honest as it gets.
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