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brain tumor-i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, we are close as can be and the perfect oppasites attract, oppasites in absolutly everything but we have the best time ever together bein stupid n playful our smiles just dont disappear. but his family has forbidded me to see him for two weeks so far. He was recently diagnosed with a brain tumor and they say he wont live past 40 and no clue when he may die..he acts just the same as always, all into sports and happy. the news crushed me though, i was in depression before it but now life just seems halted. i lost my aunt and baby cousin this summer too i just cant accept the chance of loosing him he is my absolute everything. i need help handling this for either of us? what to do to be in his arms again cause hes banned from me? i dont wana leave his side but i cant even be by his side, what do i do for or about anything im just lost? i can just curse at the sky and cry for days (link)
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If you want to be with him (and it sounds like you do)personally, I'd go up to his family and say something like "You can all go fuck yourselves, I love him too and the only one of you with any right to tell me to leave is him. If he wants me here I'm staying and you can't do a goddamn thing to stop me" and then walk past them into the house to see my partner.
Feel free to be more gentle about it and avoid the profanity or outright defiance, but that kind of shit would make me angry. I'm married, and there's not a goddamn person who would have kept me from my wife even before we were married (nor her from me).
If you love him and you want to stand by him, assert that. Not just express, assert. "This is what I am want to do, where I want to be" instead of "please will you let me?" or something similar.
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i love that response thanks..but hes in the country and im in the city so its hard to go to his house, see his family much or randomly
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