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Hello all. I am a 36 year old married mother of three boys. I have my degree in Forensic psychology and business management- human resources, I work in social services while juggling my three children and a marriage. When I originally joined this community I was excited to get back into what I love and that is helping people through listening, understanding, and guidance. However I quickly found that through my desire to help others, others are helping me. I have found my advice column beyond rewarding. I have found myself getting extremely passionate about each and every question that I read and respond to. The more the questions the greater the connection I have found between people of all walks of life, ages groups, races, gender, and religion. What I have found to be our greatest bind is love. Love for others and the love of being loved.

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I was fingered for the first time four days ago. My boyfriend was being rough and so the next day it hurt. Right now I am still having slight aches on and off on my lower abdomin. There is a chance he had precum left on his finger and I know there is a very slight chance of pregnancy but part of me is still concerned. Could I be pregnant? The only other symptom I have is a bit of fever. How many days is normal for your abdomin to ache after your first time? I am 19. Thanks in advance.

From what you described you are definately NOT pregnant. However, if your boyfriend had any type of bacteria on his fingers and was fingering you very hard to the point of irritation it is very possible that he gave you an infection which would make since as to why you have a fever. The fever is the body's way of fighting off infections. More than three days of pain is unusual after simply being fingured but if you indeed have an infection that could explain the ongoing pain and fever. If it doesn't clear up within 5 days I would go see your regular doctor if you are uncomfortable seeing a gynocologist although that would be the best route to take. Your doctor can prescribe you an antibiotic that will clear any and everything right up. Good luck and tell your boyfriend to stop being so rough. How would he like a hand job so hard that his stuff hurt for several days? ouch!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks! Haha, the last thing you said is so true :p
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