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ok im a sophomore this year and i dated this jerk in 7th grade and he was awful to me and dumped me repeatedly and cheated on me so much and i dumped him the last time and totally refuse to talk to him. i seriously hate him like everytime hes around or i hear about him i got instantly heated and angry. its been like 4 years and im still not over him even though i make it seem like i am. what can i do? (link)
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He cheated on you (when you were 12) so you feel humiliated. You also lost him to another girl and given how fiercely women are competitive with each other, you really resent coming out on the negative end of the score.
Look, you can't keep living in the past. Learn from your past experiences, but your continuing to be so angry about this four years on makes me afraid you might be a psycho. Learn to let go and move on. If you can't, you need to see a therapist.
I mean, my God, your contretempts with him happened in junior high. Have a sense of proportion.
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I'm definitely not psycho or needy at all I'll tell you that. I'm just still hurt and can't seem to not be. That really didn't help but thanks anyways.
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