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I feel like I've been chasing this guy that I've liked off and on for years. He says he likes me, but he likes someone else, or he says he'll take me on a date and that he's not interested in having a relationship right now because he's preparing to go on a mission, but then I find out that he IS in a relationship. Not to mention that he's LIED to me all these years. When I found out about his relationship, I wanted to call him and yell at him and ask him so many questions to why he lied to me again.
I have been thinking about this a lot, and I've come to a decision that I have got to stop chasing him, and just let him come to me if he has a problem. Am I doing the right thing? Thanks! (link)
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Let's look at the totals here:
1. You still want him even though he has already proven that he is a liar and a cheater.
2. You want to rank him out about this stuff, but that's a waste of time since you shouldn't be giving someone with no integrity any time at all.
3. You pine after a guy who isn't available to you.
4. Your competitiveness with another girl for his affections is making you irrational and desperate.
5. There are probably other guys who would be good for you and who want you buy who you ignore because you have put all your eggs in that guy's basket.
So seeing all that, don't you think you had better do a re-evaluation of yourself and your relationship with men? Is your father as unavailable physically or emotionally to you as that guy is? Because women often repeat their relationship with their fathers in who they choose as partners. If I have hit the nail on the head about this, you can either get counseling for this or just be more wary of guys like the one you are angry with right now.
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Listen, I don't want him anymore. I'm saying that if he wants to come to me, then that's his choice. And by the way, I DON'T need counseling.
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