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Member Since: August 1, 2011
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I feel like I've been chasing this guy that I've liked off and on for years. He says he likes me, but he likes someone else, or he says he'll take me on a date and that he's not interested in having a relationship right now because he's preparing to go on a mission, but then I find out that he IS in a relationship. Not to mention that he's LIED to me all these years. When I found out about his relationship, I wanted to call him and yell at him and ask him so many questions to why he lied to me again.

I have been thinking about this a lot, and I've come to a decision that I have got to stop chasing him, and just let him come to me if he has a problem. Am I doing the right thing? Thanks! (link)
Wow.. yeah girl you shouldn't be waiting around for a guy.. the guy is suppose to be waiting for you , never ever fall into this trap again , I knowit may be hard , but you need to pull yourself together. Is it worth even thinking about what to do with a guy who just made you wait and lead you on for those years and of course lie? thats not a very good choice in picking someone out , you need to go out and find someone new , please dont waste your time , the man is suppose to be the one waiting and chasing you 100000% its never the girl waiting for the guy.. if the guy wants you trust me he will , if he does then you know his feelings are real , another thing.. you said he just talks..never believe a guys words.. if he expresses those words but then backs itup with ACTION... ACTIONS doing things he says like in this case take you on a date and not going to well.. he doesnt support it with action , all I can tell you is tell him goodbye and never talk to him again :) by that time trust me wow you will already be liking someone else


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Thank you. That really helps. And, believe me, I already like another guy. :)




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