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I dont know what to do. Im only 14 and ive been in a relationship with this boy for a year, on and off now, and he's been talking about us having a child. Ive been really thinking about this and I really feel like Im ready for something like this. I know its not exactly a walk in the park bringing up a child and that it isnt something i can just forget about if i get fed up of the responsibilities. I do want to have a child with him now but honestly im not sure if I should. I saw what you said to some girls question and just thought youd be able to help. Please reply, Im not sure who else to ask.
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okay.. your SO SO SO young I agree with what she said.. your so young and you need to be 100% positive its a HUGE responsibility..
you will go farther in life and meet individuals that will help you and make you happy and then you will be in a better boat..
education you are only 14... how would you even get a job in the work field? itd be so hard for you...
what about the money? money comes from jobs which would be hard for you...
please rethinkthis...
its a hard situation.. plus only a year? yeah.. you its even too early to bring that up... you have to be certain and in a relationship for a while..
my advice please wait , its a hard life..
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THANK YOU! You helped save me from the WORST decision of my life! He was 18 and getting with 4 other girls I know of. He said he would only love ME forever but he was trying to get all of us pregnant at the same time. He got two girls pregnant so far that I heard of and one girl has TWO babies by him! This is the second guy I dated that wanted me to have his baby and the second guy who was busy with a whole bunch of other girls at the same time! LAST BLACK GUY I DATE EVER!
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