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I am going for my gyno visit this week. I'm a bit nervous about some things. I am 19 years old and am sexually active. My mother does not know this.... and would kill me if she knew. The only reason I am going is because I have a persistent yeast infection. Anyway they said I need to come in a half hour early to fill out paper work. Are they going to ask me about my sexual history in the paper work, because my mom will be with me and I can't write that down with her next to me....What should I do? And when they call me into the room will they make my mom leave if she follows me there? I want to be honest with the doctor I just can't let my mom know....
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Really?
You're 19. Act like it. Go alone or tell your mother you want her in the waiting room.
You really shouldn't be thinking "my mother will kill me!" at 19. You should be thinking "my sex life is my business and I'm not going to listen to any berating about it" and stop making things her business by being afraid of her reactions.
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My mom is a very religious person and would not only be mad at me but would be very hurt if she realized I was having sex. I don't want her to know to spare her feelings and our relationship. I was just wondering if they would ask those questions on the paperwork while I was in the waiting room with her.
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