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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.

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I'm 14. I'm supposed to be having the time of my life at school, but my life is anything but fun. I've never had a best friend.. and I'm far from popular. I used to be friends with a gang of girls but when I got close with one of them all of them were really mean to me and started ignoring me. They're the popular ones now. So I kinda became friends with these other bunch of girls but they ditch me all the time and I can tell they don't really care. I just started a new year of school, and I've been nice to everyone I know. And the popular girls talk with me like friends but they just start planning on hanging out even when I'm around but don't invite me. And today I was standing with the only girls who talk with me and the popular girls just called all of them and invited them to go to a movie in front of me but left me out. Like, WTF?! What did I do to make them go out of the way to make me cry? 'Cause I cry everyday and I have NO FRIENDS. Should I just die?

Suicide is not the way to go. Instead of following the people at school and trying to befriend anyone you can, why not start your own image? Look through your closet, match up a new outfit or buy a new one, get a hair cut, and do a makeover. The key to getting girls like that to like you is how you act. If you act like you don't need them, they will come to you. Instead of befriending the girls, you should be trying to befriend the boys. Getting the boys helps get the besties faster. It's not you at all, its how you are presenting it. Girls prey on girls they can make cry and feel like they are worthless, but if you present yourself as this confident, carefree girl, they will respect you. And in turn, want you to join their group.


I don't know if you can get this, but sure I can help more just send me an inbox message.

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(Rating: 5) Hey, thanks a lot for the advice :). I was totally depressed at that time, and you really helped me. About befriending the guys, well, these girls totally have it over the boys now. And most of the popular guys don't really like me.. I don't think they hate me, but they just don't like me. And these girls bitch about me to the guys too. And when the popular girls and guys go out together I'm not invited.. I'm not much of a flirt either. Its not like I'm ugly or anything (I hope =P) but I just can't flirt like these girls. I don't want to bother you again, but could you please help me out here? :(
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