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18/f

I'm about to be 19 in a couple of weeks and i think i'm like having a mid life crisis for some reason. I have been watching shows I used to watch when I was like 10 and even looking at my old dolls, ones that i used to collect, i was even looking at the collector dolls considering buying them. I've been watching disney movies and just all sorts of kiddish stuff.

I'm just sad I guess because I know I'm not really a kid anymore. The next 6 years will be hard (i'm getting my masters degree.) and i just won't be a kid anymore. Pretty soon I'll be done with school, married, kids, and then i'm dead. It's just so depressing.

I've always acted older for my age, and grew up too fast. Is it normal to feel this way and act this way? at my age haha

You know what, I'm going to keep my answer simple:
Yes, it is totally normal to feel like this when approaching any life milestones. You want to cling to your past because it is what you know and where you feel safe. As long as it doesn't take over your life/keep you from living your life, it is ok. It sounds like you have great plans to look forward to. Take time to acknowledge the sadness and indulge your inner child and then move on with your plans. And know that there will be plenty of times that this will hit you, and it is ok. It is completely normal.

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(Rating: 5) ok good thanks :)
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