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I am soooooo darn self conscious about my pubic hair. Female by the way and Im sixteen. Please yes I understand I shouldnt be having sex ( which for the most part Im not) but I lost my virginity about two years ago. Now i havent had sex since then because Im extremely self conscious. Not even just about my pubic hair but about all aspects of my vaginal area. I try shaving but Im very susceptible to ingrown hairs so I alway get a bunch of red bumps almost immeadiately. Ive even tried that lotion thats supposed to prevent it.needless to say, It didnt work. I dont want the bumps because i dont want a guy to see or feel them and just be grossed out. I also dont want them to feel hair down there because I feel for a lot of men these days are disgusted by that. And went it comes to just the area of course I keep it as clean as i possibly can but its impposible to be 100% percent clean especially with the hair. I dont want the white stuff that likes to acumulate in between the lips to be there. I dont feel like i have a normal vagina either. The gyno said it is but imnot sure. I wont let anyone go there because of my feelings and fears. No matter how bad i want them i cant bring my self to let them touch me. I dont want them to be grossed out of feel weird especially when if i do let someone touch me im so focused on their expressions trying to figure out what theyre thinking or if they are disgusted i dont even concentrate on how it feels for me. I dont know what to do about my problem i feel like imnever going to let my self be touch agagin because of my self consciousness. Help. Please & thank you. (link)
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If shaving it isn't your thing (and lots of women and the men that love them still prefer hair down there) then just keep it neatly trimmed.
You can also get it waxed, but that can be painful during the actual waxing. So you might try that if you feel you just gotta be bald there (I personally prefer women with no or little pubic hair).
And honey, there is no such thing as an ugly vagina. I have seen a lot of pussy in my life and none of it has ever been unsightly. The combination of the opening and the lips reminds me of a flower. As long as you bathe every day you will have no reason to feel self conscious about it. So relax and stop picking at yourself.
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It was helpful coming from a mans point of view. Thanks
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