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Hello all. I am a 36 year old married mother of three boys. I have my degree in Forensic psychology and business management- human resources, I work in social services while juggling my three children and a marriage. When I originally joined this community I was excited to get back into what I love and that is helping people through listening, understanding, and guidance. However I quickly found that through my desire to help others, others are helping me. I have found my advice column beyond rewarding. I have found myself getting extremely passionate about each and every question that I read and respond to. The more the questions the greater the connection I have found between people of all walks of life, ages groups, races, gender, and religion. What I have found to be our greatest bind is love. Love for others and the love of being loved.

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im 18 my boyfriend of three years is moving back to england in like 6 weeks. i really dont know what to do im staying home to go to college beacuse for the obvious reasons i shouldnt run away with a boy even thou i really love him and dont know how im going to cope with out him because i went from seeing him everday for three years for maybe two years to maybe seeing him 2 times a year. i want to go see him in december when i have my winter break because its so long hopeing i have the money. i just dont really know what to do right now how to handle it i dont know.

This has be be so tough on you right now and I am so sorry. I think however, that you will be surprised at how time will quickly help you deal with his absence so much easier. I know right now it doesn't seem like it but you will be happy again in no time. I think the best thing to do is stay connected and plan your visits. Your time together when you guys are able to visit one another will be so great. You will be so excited and the love will be so strong as if you just met. However, use this time away to explore who you are what you enjoy and meet new people and try new things. Don't spend your time depressed worrying about a situation you can not change right now. I think you are such a strong and intelligent girl. Do you know how many girls are willing to jepardize their future by chasing after a man rather than focusing on themselves first. I am so proud of you for loving yourself and realizing how much you are worth. You are doing a great job making very wise decisions. I think eventually love will bring him back and you both will be in a great place to settle down and be together. But please enjoy your youth. Everyday I wish I could go back and relive my early 20s. I would have enjoyed my freedoms and taken advantage of so many opportunities. But, you can't go back so remember now is the time of your life. Go to school, meet new friends, travel, sky dive. . . do it all and have fun. You'll be ok, I promise.

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(Rating: 5) i really need someone to tell me that im doing the right thing it is really hard, but i really feel like we are going to work! thank you so much you really helped me out!
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