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what are you supposed to do when a married man wants you (link)
Walk away.

As a woman who is in competition with other women all the time, you secretly like the thought of taking another woman's man. You also like the danger and daring involved. However, you are opening yourself up to a lot of drama and maybe, depending on the state, an alienation of affection lawsuit (this tort is almost never undertaken anymore and most states have repealed the enabling legislation, but there are still a few states where such suits are still viable). And you as "the hussy" in front of a jury, which will most likely be made up of retirees and housewives? Hope you have a big bank account because you will get the shaft.

The thing to remember is that he will not be fully available to you as long as he is trying to hide a relationship with you from his wife. Plus he could also be screwing around on not just the wife, but on you, too, since the wife being in the picture gives him a ready excuse for not being around as much as you would like.

So it's up to you. A lot of single guys wear what look like wedding bands at singles bars because they draw women like you. Either way you're a dupe.


Rating: 5
best advice EVER! he was already having sex with with three girls beside his wife! THANK YOU!




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